Relationship Advice Women Can Count On

Here is relationship advice women can count on: be real and keep a man's attention the natural way. So called "relationship experts" supposedly teach women how to get a man's attention. What they do not tell you is what to do with him once you have his attention, how to keep his attention, or how to make him want to stay the night more than once. It is true that men are more visual and physical beings who typically hide their fears and insecurities, but that is only because all his life, it is what he has been told to do.

Ladies, men have feelings too. Beneath the mask we wear to keep ahead of the pack, we want the same things you do, we just approach it differently. Women seek affection, men seek attention. Women want to be held, men want to know you are there, somewhere. A man will not always tell you when you have become someone special to them. For men, the more you stick around, the more he will assume you will know it.

If you are ready to make the next move in your relationship, do not assume he feels the same way at the same time. Do not try to pressure a man into commitment. The moment he feels smothered, he will run, pull away, or even change his phone number. There are stages in a relationship and they must all run their course before your man will be ready to commit. Do not rush through them, the slow and steady way is what will keep both of you moving forward.

If a man wants to take the relationship further, he will let you know. In the meantime, being happy with yourself and knowing yourself is a great turn on for him. Do not sell yourself short. There are things about you that attracted him to you in the first place. Keep being you and do not let yourself go. The more he sees how beautiful and confident you are, the more he will want to be with you.

Remember, no man is perfect. Flowers need water and sunlight to grow. A woman's tender heart and patient soul is what a man needs to bloom. That is relationship advice women can count on.

Monte Jamison,
Founder
PickMySpouse
CommonSenseNation

© 2009

I give relationship advice women can count on by being real. Men and women are different and need different relationship advice. I have helped women around the world to achieve better, more fulfilling, and lasting relationships by teaching them to dig deep and be honest with who they are. Once you know who you are, you can fill your life with people who make you happy. Read my relationship book and you will see what I mean. My advice is fresh, new, tried, and true. I am a happy man. I can teach you how to be happy, and how to make your man happy in the process

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